The only person we ever 100% agree with is ourselves, unless we like arguing with ourselves. Whether it is online or in person, we must all decide what is worth ideas are worth arguing over and which ones are better left unmentioned. What is the different between open-handed and closed-handed issues? There is tension anytime two people discuss theology, culture, and methodology and ministry. But there is a way to handle that tension in a way that adheres to Scripture and honors Christ.